Sunday, July 19, 2009

It just cannot stop them from missing her!!

Missing who?? Bee's grandmother!!

Still remembers, Bee brought Missy Hapi to meet his grandmother many many years back and soon after it became a practice for them to visit her twice a month. Grandmother would cook a lot of nice food for them when they visit her. She knew Missy Hapi loves to eat prawns so most of the dishes had prawns, e.g. prawns in tomatoes paste. *How sweet* :)

Grandmother was still strong healthy positive and chatty even in her age of 80s, but she became weaker and weaker as days go by. She was weak to cut her toes nails herself, Missy Hapi would then offer to help cut and trim for her. Though her nails-cutting skill was lousy but grandmother never complain and even gave her a smile back as a gesture of appreciation. :)

As usual, they went to visit grandmother as usual last Saturday but did not expect it was their last meet. They bought bean curd for her she ate a few spoonfuls only. She looked different that day, very inactive. Normally she will want them to bring her downstairs to walk and see things but just not that Saturday.

Missy Hapi got a phone call from Bee three days after their visit, saying that his grandmother had passed away due to old age. She was 93 then.

It was quite a shocking news for them!! Bee was terribly sad as he and his grandmother were very close she took care of him since he was a baby to a fat bubbly teen. To him, his grandmother was like his everything, one of his closest kin.

Mummy accompanied Missy Hapi to see grandmother on that very night she was there lying on her bed "sleeping" so peaceful.

The wake was held below her flat. During the last day all her children, grandchildren, relatives and friends accompanied her walked finished her last course. It was seriously a sorrowful walk.

She was brought to heaven on 18 July 09.

She will be in their hearts always!!